“Don’t buy women dinner and gifts” is a strong statement. Maybe even a bit harsh. But you know what’s much worse?
Buying a woman dinner, drinks and gifts and having NOTHING to show for it.
So what’s a man to do?
First, watch the video above, where I outline everything.
As I eluded to, most guys waste their hard-earned cash buying women dinner, drinks and gifts. And the most tragic part is the ladies don’t feel attraction for these men because he’s trying to buy her affection.
So what do you do when a woman asks you to take you out to dinner?
YOU TELL HER THIS: “I don’t feel the need to buy your affection with _______ (fill in the blank, whether it’s dinner, drinks, gifts, flowers, etc.).
After saying this statement to a female, I’ve never had a woman stop talking to me. And if she did I wouldn’t sweat it because that would only mean she’s merely interested in the things I bought for her and not in getting to know me.
Only buy a woman dinner and gifts after you’ve had sex with her. This affirms (to her) you’re not putting her on a pedestal and that you’re paying for her dinner because you like what she’s currently doing (i.e. having sex with you and being a fun chick to hang out with).
Why would any men spend his money on a woman he doesn’t know? Or barely knows? There’s no excuse to take a woman out to dinner for a first date… or a second date for that matter. It’s putting a woman on a pedestal and it subconsciously tells her you feel the need to buy her things in exchange for her attention. NOT GOOD!
I mean, think about it: it’s kind of hard to get to know someone when you’re both shoveling food in your mouth and chewing it.
I much prefer meeting a woman for a drink at a bar (watch the video above to learn what to tell her so you’re not buying her drinks all night), or better yet, meeting her in a park for a walk around the area (my success rate is higher when I meet a woman for a stroll at my local park).
And more surprising yet, I’ve even hooked up with a few of these ladies WHILE AT THE PARK (don’t worry, no children were subjected to seeing these women with their hands all over me!).
So, yeah—trying to buy a woman’s affection right off the bat doesn’t work, bro. Don’t ever believe what the movies or society tells you because it’s not true. Instead, listen to men who experience extreme success with women because when you learn from someone who’s doing what you want to be doing you’ll learn how to do it as well.