Speaking from personal experience, a very small percentage of the men who approach me know how to turn me on the way I wish all men could (I’d say 1 in 500 guys can properly do this). But when they do, I find the dance of seduction to be fascinating… and VERY pleasurable….
As one might assume, I get hit on A LOT. And as I just mentioned, I’m sorry to say that the vast majority of men – no matter their age or level of attractiveness – have no idea how to spark attraction within me.
Karl asked me to write about my experience, but first I wanted to throw some quick advice to you; and trust me – if you follow what I tell you you’ll be in a better place with the ladies.
If you want to get noticed by a particular girl, you must to do these things:
1) You have to show her you desire to be more than friends. How? Well, whatever you do, don’t even think about acting like a wimp! We want a man – not a boy!
You MUST generate attraction within the woman. One of the best ways to accomplish this is by joking around with her. We quite enjoy this because so few men are comfortable enough to give us a hard time (and if you do it right we’ll give you a ‘hard time’ if you know what I mean – wink, wink!).
Really, if you treat her like a bratty little girl and not a beautiful goddess, you’ll spark attraction within her.
2) She must be familiar with you. If you don’t know her, you must approach and say hello, or even better, have one of your friends (preferably a female friend) introduce her to you.
And be certain to have your friend say something flattering about you to her, such as: “I’m friends with a super fun guy and I think you and he need to meet….”
This is ultra-effective because having someone say nice things about you to another person is a great way to convey social confirmation; it makes the girl you like aware of the fact others consider you a decent, fun person. And this may sound insignificant, but it’s huge.
3) Separate yourself from other men. Take my advice: most guys – whether young or old – don’t know how to attract a woman. I believe the majority of men are afraid to think for themselves and instead act like a lemming (those adorable, tiny critters who follow each other off a cliff); this behavior is NOT a turn-on for women. It’s boring. Here’s how you get noticed:
–Don’t give a damn what others think (I’m not saying you should act like a jerk, though I am suggesting you NOT care about what others think or say about you – not even if it’s praise or compliments)
–Develop your own personal style and dress to impress (females will notice a man who has a strong personal style about him; and a man who stands out always receives attention).
–Have friends of the opposite sex (I already mentioned this, but having lady friends in your life is an awesome way to convey social confirmation; and the better-looking these ladies are, the more other females will take notice.
Believe this: a guy who’s in the presence of beautiful ladies makes other women wonder what he has that keeps the sexy women around. And trust me – when we notice this, we long to find out the answer for ourselves….)
–Be a social person You won’t attract any women by sitting at home watching movies all night. You need to develop a strong social circle – spend time with awesome people you enjoy hanging out with.
Women WANT to be seduced by men. Because when it’s done right, it’s a sexual roller coaster ride we can’t get enough of….
And it got me thinking… what was it these 1 in 500 guys did to successfully make me want to go home with them…
… with little or no effort on their part? I mean, most of these guys didn’t even buy me a drink! And the majority of them were what most people would consider average-looking guys.
Sure, some were handsome, but I admit, most of them weren’t the best looking guys in the world… and that’s putting it mildly. And their ages ranged from early-twenties all the way up to men my dad’s age!
One of the incidents that really comes to mind is when I ended up in the back of this guy’s van.
He approached me at a popular Los Angeles bar, and believe it or not, he was roughly 60 years old.
He told me he used to be in few rock and roll bands, and it was apparent he had partied hard for most of his life: he had long unkempt hair, was really skinny, and yeah… he was missing a tooth. In fact, he looked like one of those Hallmark Troll Dolls that were so popular back in the 1990s.
Yet this guy had attracted me to him IMMEDIATELY. He approached me, talked me up for a minute, and before I knew it… out of nowhere… I realized I was STRONGLY attracted to him. It was surprising and even a bit scary….
And as this guy and I continued to talk I realized my body was starting to feel hot all over; I felt weak, yet horny, and I needed a release. And it’s not like he was saying anything sexual to me; but he sure was coming across as completely different than most other guys.
I listened to every word he spoke and the attraction became MORE AND MORE INTENSE WITH EVERY PASSING MOMENT. It became unbearable and at one point – only a few minutes into the conversation – I told him I wanted him to “…take me somewhere and fuck the hell out of me….”
Well, after I said that, he took me by the hand and I followed him toward the front doors of the club, despite receiving a bunch of ‘what the heck stares’ from my friends.
Moments later, rock and roll guy and I got into his van and he asked me where I wanted to go.
HA! THERE WAS NO TIME FOR THAT! I ignored him and hopped out of the passenger’s seat and right into the back of the van…dropped my panties to the floor… and lifted my skirt, exposing myself. “I want you to fuck me right here, right now!” I said.
And he did just that….
And it was SO INTENSE and SO FULFILLING… and it felt so freaking good that I thought I was going to EXPLODE. Yet even as he was fucking me, I thought to myself, ‘This doesn’t make any sense! Why the heck am I letting this grungy 60-year-old man fuck me on the floor of his primer-colored windowless van?’
After all, earlier that night, I had been approached by men who were much more handsome than rock and roll guy, but I felt little to no attraction for those guys. Go figure….
But hey – it couldn’t help it! I didn’t even care I was led inside an old van by an unattractive, leather pants-wearing man, or that my friends thought I was being Sammy-napped. All I knew was that I wanted to be fucked by that guy right then and there!
And after I fucked rock and roll guy half to death, I asked him how he did what he did. And he grinned, displaying his missing-tooth cigarette-stained smile and he said, “Love… I’ve been seducing women ever since I first picked up a guitar as a teenager. Well… that and my band mate’s nephew is a dating instructor….”
Wait – what the what?
It turns out his band mate’s niece is Jason Capital. Random….
…because Jason Capital fucked my friend, Anette.
I didn’t press him any further, probably because I was sweaty, flustered, and trying to find my bra….
But I later realized this guy somehow bypassed my logical brain and caused me to feel like I’d known him for years within a few minutes of meeting him.
He made me feel a deep connection, causing me to be led to a private place where we undressed one another and passionately fucked until we both collapsed from exhaustion!
When I finally realized what it was these men did to make me feel a powerful take-over-my-mind feeling of love and commitment, I was super excited. I asked my friend (Karl) if he knew Jason, and at the time, he didn’t.
Though his friend Marni knows Jason well, so I arranged to meet with him. And after a few minutes of meeting Jason I asked that awkward question and it turned out to be true – Jason’s uncle did in fact play in a band with the guy I fucked (about 25 years prior when I was a baby!).
And the old man (his name is Chip – no joke) did use Jason’s program on me. Everything made perfect sense.
Editor’s Note: I hope you enjoyed Sammy’s experience. I sure did! And thanks to her, I met Jason Capital and learned many of his seduction tips and techniques.
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